How to Divorce a Narcissist
What actually works when you're divorcing someone who lies, manipulates, hides money, and turns every conversation into a fight.
Divorcing a narcissist is not like a normal divorce.
If you're divorcing a narcissist, you already know it's going to be harder than it should be. They'll drag things out, twist the facts, hide assets, refuse to engage when they need to, and engage too much when they shouldn't. They'll use the children, the money, the house, and your own words against you.
Most divorce advice assumes two reasonable adults trying to reach a fair outcome, which is why so much of it falls apart when you're dealing with someone who has no interest in being fair. You need a different approach, and that's what we'll cover in this workshop.
In our 60 minutes together
45 minutes of teaching, followed by 15 minutes of live Q&A so you can ask about your own situation.
- The specific tactics narcissistic partners use during divorce, and how to respond to each one without getting drawn in.
- Why the standard "let's just be reasonable" approach makes things worse, and what to do instead.
- How to protect your finances when you're dealing with someone who will lie about money, hide assets, or run accounts down to punish you.
- How to handle communication so they can't use your messages against you later.
- How to approach arrangements for the children when your ex is using them as leverage.
- The biggest mistakes people make in the first weeks of separating from a narcissist, and how to avoid them.
- What a realistic outcome actually looks like, and how to know when to settle versus when to push.
You'll leave with a clear sense of what you're up against and what your next step should be.
Bhavna Radia
I'm a former family lawyer and the founder of Money Saving Divorce. I've spent years working with people divorcing high-conflict and narcissistic partners, and I've also been through my own divorce, so I know the difference between the advice that sounds good on paper and the advice that actually helps when you're the one living it.
The people I work with are dealing with partners who lie, manipulate, hide money, and turn every conversation into a battle. There is a way through this that protects you, your money, and your sanity, and I'd like to show you what it looks like.
This workshop is for you if…
- ✓You're thinking about divorcing a narcissistic partner and you want to know what you're walking into before you start.
- ✓You've decided to leave and you need to know how to do it in a way that protects you.
- ✓You're already going through the divorce and it's becoming the nightmare you were worried about.
- ✓You're working with a solicitor but the advice you're getting doesn't feel like it accounts for who you're actually divorcing.
What happens after the workshop
At the end of the workshop, I'll share how you can work with me directly if you'd like support through your divorce. There's no pressure and no hard sell, just an option if it's the right fit for where you are.
Ready to join us?
Tuesday 26th May 2026, 1pm (UK)
60 minutes live on Zoom, replay included if you can't make it.
Pop your details in below and I'll send you the Zoom link, plus a reminder so you don't miss it.
A safe, confidential space where your details stay private.
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